Archive for December, 2011

The Year in Review

Dec 30 2011 Published by under Uncategorized

It’s hard to believe, but the year 2011 is almost over. In January of this year, I had a feeling this might be a year of transition, and I prayed that God would give me a closer relationship with Him. Well, to say this year has been filled with transition would be an understatement. I have had some difficult moments this year but, thankfully, I have grown closer to God as a result.

As I now prepare for the year 2012, I am excited about what lies ahead. I am expecting abundance and overflow in every area of my life. I believe big things are in store for the new year, and I can’t wait to see how everything unfolds. Just as I have done in many years past, I have made my list of resolutions for the upcoming year. Before I list them, however, here’s an update on the outcome of my 2011 resolutions:

Exercise (and actually break a sweat) at least three times per week.
I am happy to report that, in the past month or so, I actually made great strides (pun intended) in this area. I have joined a new gym and I enjoy exercising there at least three times per week. And, I even break a sweat sometimes.

Read at least one book per season.
I didn’t accomplish this goal, but I intend to revisit it for 2012.

Adhere to a daily writing regimen.
I didn’t meet this goal either, but I am pleased with the progress I have made.

And now, here are some of my new resolutions for the year 2012:

1. Continue exercising.

2. Increase my online writing presence.

3. Visit or call my friends and family more frequently (I can text with the best of ‘em, but it’s not always the same).

4. Read a new book each month.

5. Adopt a clutter-free lifestyle (out with the old, in with the new).

As I consider all I have experienced and accomplished this year, I am thankful to have written about some of it on this blog. I am also thankful for each of you who visited this blog from time to time. I appreciate your comments, feedback, and support. I have lots of ideas for how to improve The Friday Type, and I hope you will continue to visit often. May God continue to bless you richly!

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Sorting, Cleaning, and Unfolding

Dec 23 2011 Published by under Fiction,Uncategorized

Harold reclined a little in the plastic orange chair he sat in at the laundromat. He placed his hands behind his head, clasped his hands so that his fingers intertwined, and observed the activity in front of him. A 20-something mother hurriedly emptied two dryers of clothes into a large basket. A toddler, presumably her son, kneeled beside her. For the past hour, the child had been somewhat entertained by a toy cash register and a frisbee, but he now appeared cranky and hungry. His mother appeared eager to spare the rest of the patrons the agony of witnessing his impending meltdown.

A newly dating couple folded clothes at a side table. They couldn’t have been more than 19 years old. The girl, a petite, artsy type, wore red patent leather heels and a polka dot dress. Her boyfriend wore a retro cartoon t-shirt and canvas sneakers.  Harold chuckled at the irony of the couple’s activity, and he found it hard to believe his favorite childhood cartoon was now considered “retro”.   He observed how the couple joked and embraced each other. They really were cute. Years ago, he and Paula had spent hours at the laundromat together. Paula loved going there after her last class on Fridays and, since he had no basketball practice on that day, Harold often joined her. Paula typically brought homework or a book to read, but despite her best efforts at productivity, Harold saw their laundromat time as open season for pranks. Once, he moved a roll of quarters from her purse and hid them in her laundry basket, amidst her towels. She searched for fifteen minutes trying to find them, and it wasn’t until she walked outside to begin retracing her steps that he finally showed her where he had hidden them. Paula was irritated, but she wasn’t angry. As he now watched this new couple sort their laundry and chat about their childhoods, favorite foods, and career goals, Harold remembered how he and Paula had shared a similar easy conversation while doing laundry. He allowed himself to daydream a little longer, but was jolted back to reality by a knife-sharp squeal and wail from the toddler. The young mother wasn’t quick enough to avert the tantrum after all.

Although only a few days remained until Christmas Day, Harold felt no shame in spending an evening in the laundromat instead of the shopping mall. He had finished his shopping weeks ago and, although he had a washer and dryer at home, he knew he could finish washing and drying three loads of laundry even faster at the laundromat. Plus, he wanted to get out of the house for a while. Annette, his friendly but persistent neighbor, had planned a Christmas Eve soiree for 40 of her closest friends and had been insisting he attend.  He initially managed to avoid committing by saying he might have out-of-town guests to entertain, but with only a few days remaining, Annette was sure to extend the invitation again any day now. Annette was sweet, but he didn’t have the heart to tell her he’d rather sit at home preparing his taxes than spend an evening pretending to be interested in discussions about illegal immigrants, the proposed legalization  of marijuana, or any other hot-topic political issue. He also didn’t have the heart to tell her how much he hated the way she called him Hairry with such an awful nasal twang. He was sure he had introduced himself to her as Harold several years ago.

After he had folded his last load, Harold placed his laundry baskets in the trunk and backseat of his car and drove home.  As soon as he got home, he began seasoning two chicken breasts and some red potatoes he planned to cook in the oven. Next, he whisked together an oil and red wine vinegar dressing for his salad. As the chicken and potatoes baked, he began putting away his clothes. Then, the doorbell rang.

“Are you Harold Keystone?” asked the teenager standing on his doorstep.

“Yes. Can I help you?” Harold replied.

“I’m here to ummm–” Tim shifted his weight from one foot to the other. He had rehearsed this moment in his mind for years, and he had even practiced saying the words aloud throughout his car ride from the airport. Now, his hands were clammy and his voice quivered.  But, he managed to extend his hand and say, “I’m here because I’m your son.”

Harold fainted.

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I Spy…

Dec 16 2011 Published by under Uncategorized

something about a foot long. Well, that’s about the size of it.

I tried to think of additional clever clues, but I like these two best. In case you feel cheated by the brevity of this post, come back next week for a more substantial entry. And, if you’re the first person to guess what I spy and post the answer as a comment, I’ll find a way to include your name in my next post.

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My Kind of Giving

Dec 09 2011 Published by under Uncategorized

I’m bursting with creativity today.  I managed to focus enough at work to be quite productive this week, and now I’m happy to have time for creativity this weekend.  I’m feeling festive, so I’ll definitely be putting up a few Christmas decorations.  But, in addition to that, I might even try painting, making a bracelet, or making some artwork for my bedroom.  And, I’ll likely start working on some neat handmade items as Christmas gifts.

This is truly my favorite time of year.  I don’t associate the season with the commercialism many retailers and cynics use to cheapen its value.  Instead, I try to focus on the season’s reminder of God’s precious gift of a Savior to the world and, in celebrating the days ahead, I am looking forward to displaying new ways of giving.  I am reserving special time in my calendar for giving things that money cannot buy, such as a long phone call with a friend, homemade cookies or cakes, and hugs.  I’m hoping these gifts will warm the hearts of those who receive them and inspire them to be creative in their giving also.

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All Girl, All the Time

Dec 02 2011 Published by under Uncategorized

I love nail polish.  I enjoy wearing dresses and experimenting with my hair, and I love a good romantic comedy.  I understand not only girly girls enjoy these activities, but I highlight my enjoyment of them to emphasize, more importantly, that I embrace femininity.  I am glad I have womanly qualities, and I often display them unapologetically.

Very early this morning, I took my vehicle to the dealership for an oil change.  In fact, that was my second visit to a dealership’s service department before 8am this morning, but I won’t bore you with the details about what occurred at the first dealership.  Well, I think I may have spoken into existence what ultimately occurred at the second dealership, since I had this discussion with my husband before I left home this morning:

Me: I don’t even feel like being bothered with repair stuff this morning.  They always try to tell me something extra is broken.

Dear Hubby (groggily savoring the few last moments of sleep before preparing to head to work): I know. They always up-sell.

Me: Yeah, I know. But I really think it’s because I’m a woman. When you take the car in, they never bother you.  I can never just get an oil change or something and be done.

Dear Hubby: I know, Boo.

Me: You know they have those exposés on tv about repair people who break stuff just to create more work…

Dear Hubby: zzzzz (not really, but it makes for a better story)

I arrived at the dealership and requested an oil change and tire rotation.  I was told the wait would be about an hour.  The time passed swiftly as I watched Good Morning America and perused the May 2009 issue of Instyle Magazine.  Then, without fail, an employee approached me with a hushed voice and informed me my vehicle’s “battery tested bad”. He then said they could order a battery and, in three to four hours, they could have it replaced.  And, he reiterated, I should probably take care of that because don’t forget, “the battery tested bad.”

I was furious.  I wanted to ask him if I looked dumb, but I resisted the urge.  I couldn’t believe even this salesperson couldn’t just give me what I had requested.  Perhaps there is a legitimate issue with the battery.  Perhaps not.  Perhaps if my dear hubby had taken the vehicle in for service, he would have been told the same thing.  I think not.  Nevertheless, instead of telling the gentleman I hardly believed a car purchased less than a year ago from the same dealership urgently needed a new battery, I asked him to complete only the oil change and tire rotation.

I was still angry as I exited the dealership, but I tried to think positively.  (It’s still Friday, after all.)  I hopped in the car, glanced in the rear-view mirror as I smoothed my Melonrageous lip gloss, and I wondered if my favorite nail shop might be open at 9:15am.

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